I don’t know this road
but I like to believe it goes somewhere. For now, I like to walk on it. May be I
won’t like the place it takes me to, may be I will regret having left the place
I was at. But nothing can take away the joy of walking on this road, now, that
is a reality.
Is it
important to love the destination? Or is it important to love the journey? It is
the same question of weighing “what will be” to “what is”, of deciding to “live”
rather than “live for”.
I choose to
“live”!
© Swati
Ramanujam, Tuesday, 3rd April 2012, 12:01 pm on her Facebook
post
This above piece, or rather, a
masterpiece, of an assortment of simple words put together, is of such weight,
depth and magnitude, that I could not resist being drawn to it and subsequently
poaching it (with permission from the brains that coined it, of course), so that
I can share it with you all.
This would be beyond my capability
and ability to try and fathom the extent of the message above, and more so,
about the person who houses such a grey matter at the place where it matters!
However, I am going to make an effort, punitive though it might be from the
perspective of the author, to showcase the author from my
perspective!
I share a strange association with
the author (‘relationship’ is certainly not the right word). A brief background
to this effect is imperative to bring out the perspective of my
inferences.
I got in touch with her about 4
years back when I joined a new concern. Not that we have had formal
introductions from day one; but we did slowly get acquainted through our work. I
always did find her being authoritative and possessive leading to aggressive,
about her work and her team. She always did put a price on her efforts and time
(‘any job not worth 5L as INCOME is not worth racking one’s brain
about’).
Watching her from across the table
during meetings, I always found her in three conversations at the same time –
one that was taking place at the meeting; one that was taking place with her
team on certain deliverables of another client; and, the one, more importantly,
that was doing the rounds inside the frontal lobe of her cerebrum! I do not
still know, if this qualifies and classifies under ‘multi-tasking’.
To me, she is a loner! She is an
introvert under the garb of being an extrovert (am I coining a new species here,
or this species exist…more on this later in my blog!). She loves words and lives
in her world of words. To her, words are her weapon to reasoning! In her world
of analysing facts and data, in her world of rationalising action, in her world
of transforming numbers, in her world of making sense out of nonsense, she
understands the essence of words and thence plays with it.
I always did observe her to be a
vociferous reader, delving into any topic that interests her. She always did
share her reads on the social media. You would also find her popping in and out
of reading material sites as a person who had visited the site and read a
plethora of topics on offer.
I still cannot classify her to be a
friend, acquaintance, colleague or someone whom I know. You will have observed,
all that I have said, or rather wrote about her, is and will only be my
observation (not interaction) of her in a work environment.
But, I am proud to have her on my FB
friend list (one that she accepted, or rather, should I say, granted my
request). Proud to have someone who is having the capability of using simple
words to reason out complexities of life, work and relationships.
Why did this certain piece, amongst
the gems that she did sometimes throw around on the FB, draw my attention and
interest? I must have read this piece almost about umpteem times, by now, and am
sure will keep reading it in times to come. I have also edited the same when I
put it here on the blog (notice the “!” at the end).
I have also debated with myself,
whether, the last sentence of the first para should read as, “But nothing
can take away the joy of walking on this road. Now, that is a reality.” OR
as “But nothing can take away the joy of walking on this road, now. That is
a reality.” I have decided to respect the thoughts of the author and you
are reading the piece the way she had written.
This piece stares at me and reminds
me, of me and my professional journey.
To those who know me through this
journey in time, to those who have met me during different times in this
journey, to those with whom I have had the pleasure of association in this
journey, to those who have been magnanimous to have taken this journey with me
during some part of time, to those who are still walking along with me, this is
ME!
I choose to
“live”!